Dress for success in the bedroom and why to keep the lights on
Sexy lingerie
These days lingerie is sexier than ever. One supermodel apparently admits to wearing a brassiere when she's intimate with her guy. There are lacy bras, corsets and sexy stockings, thongs in lace or pearl—all of which can fuel a lover's imagination.
One item that Sheila* finds very titillating is a crotchless fish-net body stocking. "It completely covers my arms and legs which hides any cellulite but has the titillating crotchless aspect which my partner just loves."
Dress for success
Sue McGarvie suggests scooping up all the on-sale wigs and costumes after Halloween. "Costumes are like puppets. There are things you can do or say when you're dressed up that you can't normally do."
That can be anything from a nurse's uniform to a kilt to a dominatrix outfit. Jansen encourages women to ask their partner what look they find sexy. "You might be surprised at what they find hot."
How about trying out some edible wear? Sex toys and adult novelty franchise Aren't We Naughty (www.arentwenaughty.com) stocks everything from candy garter belts to cuffs and bras that won't have him eating out of your hand but close to it.
Lighting
You may want to turn off the lights—but don't. Men are visual creatures and they want to see who they're loving. Lisa* lights candles in bedroom. "There's nothing like low lighting to set the mood." In fact, candles, dimmers and even lava lamps can have soft shadows playing with your skin in a much more attractive way.
And finally, one of the best things to keep in mind is something I read years ago, when I spotted this question on a magazine cover. ‘What does he think when he sees you naked?' The answer? He's just happy you're naked. It's time we women started being happy, too.
* Name changed by request
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